Books & Toolseverything I’ve built for the work.

The books map the territory. The tools help you do the work — at your own pace, on your own terms.

Your Civil War Within

Negotiate Peace with the Voices That Hold You Back

The framework. How to see internal conflict as governance, not as pathology. How to negotiate with the voices that seem to oppose you — and why false peace never holds.

Ebook and paperback launching 7 October.

Treaties with the Dead

A Memoir of Internal Negotiation

A memoir built from years of reflexive journaling — the same practice that produced Your Civil War Within. A case study in what happens when you negotiate with loss, with family, with history. And what you discover — late in life — about neurodiversity, about the wars you’ve been fighting, and about building treaties that actually hold.

Ebook and paperback launching 7 October.

The Excavation — Guided 6-Week Edition

A Guided 6-Week Reflective Writing Programme

Twelve questions distilled from both books, walked through two at a time over six weeks. Each comes with plain-language framing — what it is really asking, and why it matters. Your answers are saved as you go. At the bottom, once you have dug through all six weeks, you earn fifteen minutes one-to-one with me over Zoom.

Available now · $27

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The Excavation Starter Kit

A 7-Day Guided Journaling Experience

A structured 7-day journaling journey that walks you through the excavation process step by step. Designed for anyone ready to start negotiating with what they carry — with guidance, not guesswork.

Available now · $15

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Two Truths at Once

A Guided Tool for When Gut and Mind Disagree

For the moments your gut says one thing and your mind says another — and you freeze, or override one of them, and pay for it later. Map one live disagreement between the two voices, trace where each was trained, and write a treaty that honours both. About 25–40 minutes; everything you write stays on your device.

Available now · $9

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There Is No Closure

A Free Guide for the Past That Won’t Let Go

A short guide with one exercise you can do on your own tonight. Drawn from thirty years in peacebuilding, not therapy. There’s no closure, and no cure — but there is something far more useful. Enter your email and it’s yours.

Free

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