Books & Tools
The books map the territory. The tools help you do the work — at your own pace, on your own terms.
Negotiate Peace with the Voices That Hold You Back
The framework. How to see internal conflict as governance, not as pathology. How to negotiate with the voices that seem to oppose you — and why false peace never holds.
Ebook and paperback launching 5 November 2026.
A Memoir of Internal Negotiation
A memoir built from years of reflexive journaling — the same practice that produced Your Civil War Within. A case study in what happens when you negotiate with loss, with family, with history. And what you discover — late in life — about neurodiversity, about the wars you’ve been fighting, and about building treaties that actually hold.
Ebook and paperback launching 5 November 2026.
The whole method, in seven stages
The method in full, drawn from Your Civil War Within and Treaties with the Dead — and built to be used rather than read. You establish a baseline, learn the dig on a small site, then take it to the one that matters: naming the voices you carry, translating between them, and writing terms you can actually keep. Work at your own pace; your answers are saved as you go and stay on your device.
Works on your phone or laptop. Everything you write stays on your device — nothing is uploaded, ever. Your place is saved as you go, your access does not expire, and there is an export button so you keep a permanent copy.
Available now · $27
A Free Exercise for the Conversation You Keep Putting Off
When you’ve built the courage to face someone, meet the voices you’re bringing with you — the one who goes quiet, the one who gives in, the one who says no first. A few questions, one at a time, about fifteen minutes. Your answers never leave your own device.
Free
A Free Guide for the Past That Won’t Let Go
A short guide with one exercise you can do on your own tonight. Drawn from thirty years in peacebuilding, not therapy. There’s no closure, and no cure — but there is something far more useful. Enter your email and it’s yours.
Free